...I understand, and I'm glad you told me. I'm interested in those that people choose to be their friends, but I think it's just as important to know the reasons they were chosen. So many choose for strength or power or their own benefit - and those aren't friendships, not usually. Sometimes they become that way, but often there's an imbalance there.

But you're mentioning things like vulnerability as being desirable in its own way, or versatility with relation to choice and not usefulness...that's not common, I think. Thank you.